W just told me she wants out

[TrentC]

I hope somebody can give me their opinion quickly. My wife said she would like to move back in with me. The asking to come back didn't go exactley the way I had dreamed it would.
Since she left me and dated somebody should she have said she made a mistake and she was sorry. Or was I expecting too much.

You probably are, at this point. If reconciliation comes, she will feel remorse.

I know it will take time to build our relationship. She said she wants to sleep in seperate rooms for a while. i told her i wasn't interested in sex at this point af that was her concern.

It's up to you to set whatever conditions and boundaries you feel are necessary.