Tom, it's bad. Your middle age W is acting like a teenager who is so addicted to the cell phones & computers that they cannot talk face to face with anyone for five whole minutes! Got to take a call or see who is texting....or they are TM "while" you try to talk to them. It is the rudest thing, IMO, to stop in the middle of the conversation you are having with person b/c they rather see who is on the phone
Oh well, just another sign that she is not attracted to you at this time.....and she has found a whole new world out there in cyber land.....and that is what is making her feel alive right now. She has tuned you & the MR completely out of her mind. You are nothing more than a paycheck to enable her blackberry and other toys. I suppose you pay for it b/c I don't recall you saying that she worked.
So don't you think it is time to set up a few boundaries? She is talking about dating other men while she is still living as your W under the same roof as you? No wonder you feel disrespected! I think it's time for drastic steps. What do you think? Are you up for it?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
