I'm surprised that your lawyer thinks that rotating custody wouldn't be allowed by the judge. I've had two lawyers here in FL tell me that it's becoming more common b/c the children are actually better adjusted when they get see their parents on an equal basis. You may want to obtain a second opinion. My W and I have agreed to 50/50 rotating custody...that's the route we're going. I'm going to follow-up as well to make sure.
Regards, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009