[quote]I had thought long and hard about a keylogger but have been hesitant. If she found it, I think it would be a dealbreaker for her. Is this worth it?
That advice is passed around a lot, but I think it has to be left up to the individual man. If you can live without a keylogger and you think you can outshine OM....then you have to make that choice. But, some men find themselves in a limbo state due to the WAW being very comfy in her cake-eating state. So, it's up to you. If she is computer savy, then it is taking a very big risk. Having her followed with some picture taking may work better. You need to read about options to take and then decide what is best for your stitch.
I am definitely the more computer savvy of the two of us or at least I like to think so! I keep waffling on the keylogger but as the days wear on, the thoughts that I need to start taking steps to protect myself are becoming more frequent. I looked at her internet history the other day and saw something that made it seem like she is at least starting to look into what would be involved in selling off a major asset. While it is something she bought, it was bought during our marriage and in our state, that means it is a marital asset. I am wary of any significant financial moves, especially if there is no transparency about them.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
Sure hope 2010 turns out to be a great year for you.
Thanks, I wish the best for you and your family in 2010 as well!
