Hi Rob. Been reading through some of the other forums and ran across this little nugget on the communications board. For some reason I thought of you.
"Leave the past in the past. Bringing up “old stuff” can leave the blamed one with a sense of “why try” because they know they cannot fix the past. Focus on the present, more viable issue."
I hear you Bart, I do think about this often, I've wrestled with this in my head but I want to know what happened and who it happened with regardless of our outcome.