Wife wants best of both worlds

[MHL]

I'm back, I should post this on my sitch but since you asked here I'll respond here. I met wife to drop off S9 for dinner with her and her roommates (House owner and another young girl). S13 actually considered going out to dinner if it was going to be all 4 of us. The house owner, (57 year old divorced lady that supposedly has it all together, runs marathons, drives and audi seems to magically have money etc. etc. etc., my W aspires to be just like this woman) was fixing a special dinner and my W could not back out. No problem, W was nice and upbeat as was I, we made good eye contact, nice smile, wait that's my old W. I see her every now and then and it is nice. I asked if she talked to her IC to set appt. she said that she called and left message. Depending on when appt. is I think I am going to call my DB coach for advice also. Okay I may be on late or wait until tomorrow night. Kick off is in 15 minutes and I have had a couple of drinks, feeling good, I'll take Alabama for the title.