Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Disregard - had to make my own decision. I weighed it all in my mind and decided that for me the best thing to do is to continue to pull back, for her the best thing to show support, so I took the less selfish route. Worked hard at not going overboard. Just sent a couple of notes to make sure she was eating, taking medication, and not stressing about this evening, told her to take some quiet time for herself by shutting her office door and let others wait (and she responded immediately that she was shutting her door for a few minutes, so she listened) because I know that is important to her right now. I read it on another post recently too that pushed me over to what I did - we aren't machines, we are human, sometimes you have to do what you think is best. That's what I did.