Wow, cutter. I'm so sorry I missed all these posts as I wallowed in newcomers.

You have made such a journey thru the holidays and now this big convo with ladybug. Take time to think, reflect, process. Not that you haven't spent 7 lousy months doing that--- but you are making major strides here. Indifference equals detachment, I think.

I'm so glad that you made such progress so fast. It does suck to spend so
much time thinking about the sitch. I am so looking to find anything else to think about. The Mets, the weather, price of coal...anything.

I will keep checking on your thread here.

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process