It doesn't surprise me either but I had to try. I wasn't trying to talk down to her, just trying to give her the facts.
Her lawyer could have explained it to her as well, and she'd be more open to advice from him than from you.
As PDT says, there's a reason they put "v." between your name and hers. You are not her friend in this.
But what is done is done. Good luck.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
