Well, that was a wasted email. She won't agree to the custody arrangement so it looks like it's going to be a contested divorce. Great.
That doesn't surprise me.
Making your stand and setting out your counter-proposal looked good, but the part where you went into detail about how much more a contested divorce would cost came across like you were talking down to her and trying to force her to capitulate.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement