Thanks Maynard. I'm going to have to check out your posts so I can catch up on your sitch. I find it hard to give others advice on here...it seems like I would have nothing of substance to say because I don't know what I'm doing myself. I'm glad I'm getting some help over here on my sitch though. I know what you mean about the email. I've poured my heart out to my wife over and over...you tell them how much you love them, how they are the most beautiful thing in the world to you, how you would do anything for them...my wife is the most important person in the world to me. Too bad I didn't act like it when she was around. Like I was saying though you do all that stuff...and you get "well I'm not happy and I don't feel those things and I don't want to work on it" in return. My wife just insists she wants a divorce asap. She says we need a fresh start and maybe something will happen in the future but she is dead set about being in this marriage. Its hard. I feel like my wife feels like she missed out on a lot...she is just starting to take college classes and wants to live on her own and support herself...why she would want to struggle instead of being in a marriage that I am committed to making great is beyond me. I don't know. Its just really hard. I was supposed to go to my first IC appointment today, but they canceled it due to all this snow we are getting here in PA. I think I may go see a Christian counselor instead. I got a reference to what is supposed to be a very good one.
