@Gypsy: Let it go. You cannot control what type of parent she is, will be and/or how she will treat her children.
I'm all-too-aware of the fact that I can't control her parenting, and I don't have any intention of trying to do so beyond answering any questions she may/might (never did have the grammar on that down) have in complete honesty.
But when I have a weeping 7-year-old in my bed at 3:30 in the morning who says, "Daddy, you're a better Mommy than Mommy," I find it difficult not to care about the fact that I can't control it -- know what I mean?
Take a moment to look in the mirror, see the man who looks back.
Thank you, no; I started shaving in the shower by feel because that guy who looks out of the mirror is, like, waaayyyy older than I am!
Hey Smiley - sorry I have been lurkin on your guys thread and what I read about the shaving just made me laugh. This is why I come here top this site. The pearls of wisdom are truly great.