Looking for some more help.

[TrentC]

Trent - some 180's I am going to work on are not contacting my wife, not being so eager to hear from her everyday, and not to discuss R with her.

Those are good tips in general for right now, but 180's should be things that you want to continue if and when your wife changes her mind about leaving.

Steve- I should date while still married? I don't think that would be a good idea...anyone else?

I think he was speaking in abstract; if you were meeting your 22-year-old wife right now for the first time, are you acting like the kind of guy that she would be attracted to?