Not sure what to do

[TrentC]

I need to ask a question. When does some-one know when they should give up?

When you feel ready to go.

W has packed all my stuff and nothing has changed. I think I'm at that stage of giving up.

There's nothing wrong with that. Some people struggle with doing what needs to be done to save the relationship, and some relationships can't be save no matter how hard anyone tries.