I made it through thread 69. However, thank you so much for the cliff notes smile provided above.

Based on thread 69 things appear to be moving in the right direction. I am sure it is slower than you want but it appears positive. I understand the feeling of talking to a wall.

What happens when you don't bring up issues/concerns? Does he then try to talk about things? I know that in my R/M I was always the one to talk about issues/concerns while my W was always the one to keep things to herself. It was/is extrememly frustrating and at this time I am acting "as if" and not talking about anything with her. This hasn't caused her to bring anything up but I know that is because she has someone on the side that is providing for her needs.

Keep your head high. You have been going at this for awhile and show strength and honor in continuing to fight for you R/M.

M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10