K, thats so mad about ow !! I wouldnt say anything to H.. wait till she starts the job and see if she does need to interview you or even bgf and THEN tell him.. god, you can hold your head up high though hey. Perhaps she is curious, or has an ulterior motive.. if I were her, I'd rather take any job than one where I have to potentially interview the wife of the man I was seeing for 3 years !!???
Oh and I like your diary idea for you (see progress/triggers for low spots) but I have a feeling your H wont write a word in it.. (sorry). He never wrote you the letter/emails he said he would afterall and this is something he may just perceive as 'yours' even if you say he can write in it. Maybe he will surprise us all hey !
I am glad he is still in the house though.. and its a week after new years... hey, I noticed :-)
xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
