Maybe, like some of the letters you have written, he won't feel as pressured. It may take him a while to respond, but I'm hoping it's thought provoking for him!
Keep working on the MC my dear.
Things will change with time. One way or another. So keep moving forward and, I'm going to say the deadly word, be patient. Just look at how much things have improved, albeit much slower than any of us would have liked.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I would assume she would have to get info from my gfs. And those are the 3 gfs that supported me thru the sh!t, picked me up, questioned my sanity when I talked about an OW, comforted me and knew us as a couple for years. One of the 3 is my very very bgf who came to my rescue and stood silently by my side when I read those emails, she is the one who came to my home the first weekend he took our kids, she is the one he called to say sorry... So I think,all they wouldh ave to say, would be "Hi, I am sorry to meet you and I am Maria's best gf" with a grin... K
K, thats so mad about ow !! I wouldnt say anything to H.. wait till she starts the job and see if she does need to interview you or even bgf and THEN tell him.. god, you can hold your head up high though hey. Perhaps she is curious, or has an ulterior motive.. if I were her, I'd rather take any job than one where I have to potentially interview the wife of the man I was seeing for 3 years !!???
Oh and I like your diary idea for you (see progress/triggers for low spots) but I have a feeling your H wont write a word in it.. (sorry). He never wrote you the letter/emails he said he would afterall and this is something he may just perceive as 'yours' even if you say he can write in it. Maybe he will surprise us all hey !
I am glad he is still in the house though.. and its a week after new years... hey, I noticed :-)
xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
