Ohh please, dont try!!! I mean, 69 threads so far!

Joking aside, my story goes a follows:
Both tired and fed up by what we faced (raising kids, people in his family dying, moving, changing jobs etc etc)
H finds an OW (Ihave NO clue for a year, I first suspect something in May 2007)
Falls madly in love
Hates my guts is a textbook case of a cheating H
Moves out
I calm down
DB- good Dbing!
Never wants to D me
Stalls and asks for time
Says he wants back after a year separated
I agree although I am in love with someone else-we are still separated
Things dont feel right-people call me a WAW
I listen to my gut and put a keylogger on my PC in Jan 2009
August 6th 2009, a year almost into fake reconcil I find out the truth about her thru 1000 emails and pics
They had been together since Aug 2006-he was still going back and forth
She lost her appeal when she started making demands and then he started seeing the reality PLUS he sensed me leaving him
I go nuts with all the details I find
Push for D
He shows signs of real remorse
We are now piecing

All these years we spend time as family, never alone
We never have sex or any kind of intimacy
He treats me like...family (with a 5 month distance when he left that he was high)
He never went public with her
Didnt want to move in with her

Maybe it is worth reading my first post. I dont know. It's not over till its over, you know?
K


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009