When your wife responded the other night, she was offering up someone else and their apology not her own. She may very well get there some day and feel the need to apologize for herself. Personally if I ever see the OW she will not have a hair left on her head.

What good does it do? "I am sorry I had an affair and broke up your family" doesn't do anything for the person that harm was done to. Sure we are all taught to apologize when we do something wrong when we are growing up but I tell you it would take a whole lot bigger person than I to accept that apology. Drop it.

kat

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