Thanks Kalni for stopping by.

I am sure that you won't be suprised by my sitch. smile It is basically a carbon copy of many others on this site which is sad.

I have been doing a ton of reading not only on the boards, but also books about relationships/marriage and additionally affairs. I am sure that she is "high" right now.

While I was scared of the separation at first I think this is best thing for my W and I. I hope that it does give her a clear picture and also a dose of reality.

I will remain strong and will continue to focus on the boys. I am protecting myself and my sons legally as is my wife so right now everything is really going through the lawyers.

I would love to read through your stich. Do you have a link to your latest one?

M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10