The important thing is to see all of your options. Then the next important thing is to visualize how things will go with each option. Then choose the one that worked best. Then let it go. Do not try and control the real interaction.
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How else will I learn and grow?
By making mistakes, realizing that they didn't work, and change the way you interact the next time.
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First question: Do you know if H has OW? Not that has been confirmed....I find it very hard to believe someone would just up and walk away without having someone waiting in the wings.
I agree. I never went looking, but had suspicions. Trust your suspicions.
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LOL. He hasn’t quite caught on to this chasing concept yet.
That is because he knows you will still take him back. People want what the can't have. What can't you have? What do you want?
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We have no communication whatsoever outside of issues revolving around the kids.
Count your blessings. I have to force communication about kids and it is all via email.
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...He is no longer welcome in. (Counter intuitive) . The minute after he moved out, I changed the locks.
I am not sure if you understood my point. I got the feeling you were inviting him in.....
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Being nice is not a 180 for me. Where do I draw the line from being cold to frozen?
OK. It is nice to know when to be nice and when to be a b*itch.
