These are the types of things that, IMHO, make piecing different from when you're posting on the Infidelity or Newcomers board.
Things that you would never do there, like "fix" your spouse, etc become different because you're truly communicating with your spouse.
Lets say in the course of your daily life, your spouse has an arguement with their mother. W tells you the story and in your mind you can see where W wasn't understanding her mom or there was a misunderstanding that caused the disagreement. Would you not say to your W, Honey, did you consider xx? And if she said "oh crap, I didn't think about that, maybe I owe her an apology", would you not say "you might be right"?
I'm not saying an A is anything like an arguement between a mother and child, but isn't it the same theory?
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
