OK, at the risk of others slapping me, I think you need to shake things up. AND, I happen to agree w/Kara, HOWEVER, I don't disagree w/R2C.
OBVIOUSLY, look, smell great... OBVIOUSLY, have on a SPECTACULAR attitude, exhibiting fun, poise, and intrigue.
However, this is where I MORE agree w/Kara. TO ME, pursuing is calling him, txting him, inviting him, to do/be w/you, etc... When he shows up to pick-up/drop off kids or you see him at a game, etc... THERE IS NOTHING WRONG with flaunting YOU! The lookin' smellin' actin' bein' great YOU! You don't need to ignore him, or give him one word answers. You can be friendly, open, and appealing! FUN!
IF/WHEN he shows interest is when you can allow him to chase a bit.
Mix it up a bit, girlfriend!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.