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I sent the text.

He responded with:

"Thats fine. Just don't keep my daughter from me"

I don't think I should respond as it will just go back and forth. I have never kept baby from him.


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Maybe a quick reply that you will be available during the scheduled visit time. He needs a reminder that it is not at his whim!


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Originally Posted By: bright_new_day
Maybe a quick reply that you will be available during the scheduled visit time. He needs a reminder that it is not at his whim!

I sent: "I always have her available during your scheduled visit time. Not a problem."


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Good job! Now hold that stance!


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Yes, nicely done SO2, keep it up, your doing well!


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On board the D train now..

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He doesn't deserve that much typing!


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Yes he is a controlling sociopath. What is good for him apparently isn't good for me!

I am going to a kickboxing class tonight! Have never done one, but heard they are super hard. Hope I can walk tomorrow!


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Quote:
I am going to a kickboxing class tonight! Have never done one, but heard they are super hard. Hope I can walk tomorrow!


Now that is a 180. Wow. I am impressed. Let us know how it goes.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
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Originally Posted By: K4D
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I am going to a kickboxing class tonight! Have never done one, but heard they are super hard. Hope I can walk tomorrow!


Now that is a 180. Wow. I am impressed. Let us know how it goes.

Kevin


If you don't hear from me again! I love you all! smile

I was going to the gym alot in the Fall but sort of got away from it. They have a really good childcare and thought a few days a week I would go in the evenings to keep busier during the high texting times of exh! Other days I will go in the mornings.


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Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23
kickboxing saved me last year! I let out all my stress there! I stopped because when I moved, the kickboxing club I was joined ot had clubs by me, but no babysitting. The gym is my sanity, I remain focused elsewhere. Plus, it gets me an hour of me time!


Have fun!


That is what everyone says. Its a good stress reliever. I hope so. Looking forward to it.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
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Baby Girl born 3/08
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