Helping her would encourage her to help me with the kids, instead of intentionally making things worse for me with the kids. And, it would show her the things that you and I have corresponded about...me realizing what it was like for her to live with me.
2 words: "fixing" & "expectations"
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.