And you need to solidify the NC with OM status for your own sake as well, of course. Each time the R clock gets set back to zero, as they say.
That my friend is the dilemma in it'self. There is no way for me to know 100% of the status. I live 13+ miles away from (x)W. OM lives all of 3 blocks. I'm certainly not going to make it the duty of my kids to report if he's around. Then again, half the time they don't even realize that I had stopped by late and stayed with (x)W for a while.
Other than her phone bill and the gossip channel around town, I've got nothing. Nothing to say no she isn't with OM still, and nothing to say yes she is.
At least I can say that (x)W voluntarily tells me when OM contacts her.
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Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11