((antlers)) that has to be hard to hear..

In my divorce stipulation our mediator put the following:

Each parent agrees to support the other parent's relationshp with the child and agrees to abide by the following:

1- Neither parent will do anything to estrange the child from the other parent.

2- If the child develops a negativity toward a parent, then the other parent is responsible to assist in elminating the negativity through discussion and counseling as needed.

I would make appointments for yourself & your children together & separately for them to have someplace safe to deal with their emotions & teach you both how to communciate better in a place where you are both hearing the same expectations.

Personally I would put the note to your wife on hold until this sitatuion with your kids was under control better.

Peace
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