Trixi, I agree with Dom (sorry about your sitch Dom), he was testing the waters, negotiating, putting his toes in the lake...
Keep it light and easy.No guilt, no conditions. NOT NOW. No "demands" at this phase. Just be your happy/confident self, dont let these talks get to you, "you are prepared and equiped to handle anything that will come your way", remember? You DO have something he wants. Wiggle it around his nose a bit...
If you have read the castle analogy, he has the left the castle, joined your picknick, and went back in again. Dont allow any jerk reactions etc scare him away. Easy does it dear.
In the early days of my DBing (AGES ago!!! LOL) I remember being told, that when you create second thoughts to them about their decisions, it's a small victory. K
