I would assume she would have to get info from my gfs. And those are the 3 gfs that supported me thru the sh!t, picked me up, questioned my sanity when I talked about an OW, comforted me and knew us as a couple for years. One of the 3 is my very very bgf who came to my rescue and stood silently by my side when I read those emails, she is the one who came to my home the first weekend he took our kids, she is the one he called to say sorry... So I think,all they wouldh ave to say, would be "Hi, I am sorry to meet you and I am Maria's best gf" with a grin... K