When WAH started in on how I didn't bother to get to know him during 10 years of our marriage I said "I can see how you might feel that way." He told me to stop with the psychological crap..
So would have I.
From his point of view, he is right. But that is his side of the story.
Did you get to know him?
"I thought I was. But I can see how you would feel that I didn't."
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK