Ditto. If at some time your wife decides to do that on her own fine but I think you need to get that idea out of your head. You are not her parent walking her over to OM exwife's house to apologize for what she did. Let it go already.

I am happy that things are going well for you both. Work on things between you and leave the "extra" people out of it.

hugs, kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory