Maybe I missed something. I follow a lot of threads. Why would you NOT take her up on this offer? This is what transparency is all about!
Puppy
I had a feeling you might say that Puppy. For some reason, it just seemed right in the moment to hold back. I was showing her that I am trying to exhibit self control and not be controlling of her. Had I taken her up on the offer, eventually, it would have came back at me as controlling.
