I am experimenting with standing closer to her and moving around her in provocative ways. Also, I am letting her catch me stare at her a**. I don't know if this stuff does any good but, what the heck, all this stuff is trial and error.
How about being more direct and honest?
"You haven't worn that skirt in a while; I like it." "You look really good this morning."
Maybe it's just me, but if someone that I wasn't necessarily attracted to was staring at me and not saying anything, it would be more unsettling to me than flattering.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement