Calling out the Piecers

[dday101798]

briefly give me some background on how it is your COUSIN ties in to all of this?

No problem pup,

I've been living with my cousin in her house since last February after not being able to see my son on his birthday and the D was getting underway. I couldn't afford to keep our house up and flip the bill for an attorney and the house allowed (x)W 24 hour access to rummage, steal, and fight with me.

So, my cousin took me in to her house and helped me buy a vehicle that I'd need for work. For the first few months things financially were fine, I was able to give her all the money in the world that she wanted and help her out, and pay her back for the vehicle loan.

Then the D hit and I lost 48% of my overall income. So things have been tight ever since. I do pay whatever bills she asks an dgive her money when I can, but a 'fixed' rent has been near impossible.

So, as always, money, is part the problem.

Then there's the noted recent reasonings: my cousin has been there all thru out the process of the D and watched me go from cloud 9 to hell 100 times over and cares for my well being (even said again last night).

I also believe she lives out the loss of her H through me in some wierd way, we were very much alike.

My cousin says she'd like to see (x)W and I and the kids all back together as the happy family we were, but is skeptical of (x)W.

(x)W in turn is skeptical of my cousin's motives for being so protective of me.

That's why I'm really getting the notion that the 3 of us need to straighten this out.