My story, what to do next.

[digger22]

Bump in the road yesterday. Major money crisis going on, combine that with wife thinks we need to sell both our houses asap in a garbage market where we would be lucky to break even. Add in her mental counselor who in 2 hours has been able to analyze for her what she should do with her 14 years together with me. I had a release of emotions on her the phone and I felt like I did really need this to be over now because I know that I will be just fine.

Able to get myself back together as the day progressed. My main concerns right now are just for my kids. She came to move out after work and we had another sit down talk with her (her sis as mediator) about the kids, money, counselor. Went well, talked to her sister after and she really thinks that W hears what I am saying. W leaves for the night, but then is back to talk more in 1/2 hr. We agree that we are in different places right now, and that we mainly just need to focus on kids now because everything else we are looking at from different points of view.

I guess she can only get 1 more appt. with c and then she has to find somebody else. She is pretty disappointed because she really likes him. Me, her sis and her mom are relieved that she won't be able to listen to this guy anymore.