I was a bit tense last night. Still struggling with trust. My wife sensed it. She asked if it would help if she explained where she was throughout the day. I told her no. It was my problem, I would deal with it. She responded with an edgy version of shouldn't we help each other with this stuff. What she said was, "If we can't help each other with this stuff, what is the point of being married." I told her I understood how she felt and appreciated the offer. Does this sound like she is pursuing a bit? She wants me to help her and she wants to help me. It also sounds like there is some genuine remorse.
Later in the same conversation, she acknowledged she was depressed. I validated another part of her statement and stayed away from the depression statement. She has IC on friday. I hope they are able to communicate and establish rapport.
This a.m., we were somewhat playful. I am experimenting with standing closer to her and moving around her in provocative ways. Also, I am letting her catch me stare at her a**. I don't know if this stuff does any good but, what the heck, all this stuff is trial and error.
