My other thread is over 100 posts so I figured I could let it go to the archives.
Its a new year I have been at this now for 7 months and I am convinced the W is in MLC. That answers the title of my last thread. She seems to be getting more serious about the Big D, maybe, kind of, sort of(typical MLC behavior). I decided today that I should contact the lawyer I want to use. Just in case she calls him since she is going though the phone book/internet looking. Of course she told me at the end of Oct for my anniversary that she had a lawyer but I guess that didn't work out since there has been NC with anyone since. At her last IC she was looking for validation from the C to get a divorce. Over the holiday my S22 was in and she told him that she was going to D, and he asked her what was she waiting for? No answer. Also I know that her toxic parents were away on a cruise. They are back. So I am sure they are validating her wishes. Time will tell. I need to follow my own advice and not fear this. So far I am OK but we will see.
My W and I are basically NC still in the same bed. Now that my son has left and W has gone back to school/work we will see what the new normal is. Did I add in that she told S22 that she might lose her job because she has been warned twice and only has one more chance. (whatever that means)
Add into my sich that my 84 year old father is dying from an unknown disease and my 78 year old mother has gone off her bipolar meds. She is running around changing banks because the bank messed up her money??? Well tomorrow if she doesn't go for her kidney dialysis they will Baker Act her into a mental hospital. Might be a good thing.
