How are your kids doing, and how are you doing with GAL?
Our little guy (17 months)I don't think senses anything amiss. Our daughter (9) seems to know something is up with my husband and myself. She has had to watch over her brother for a couple of minutes here and there when he and I have a couple of words in another room. I know in my heart she is scared/confused because she has seen enough people outside our family go thru divorce that she has asked us again and again to never get divorced. I do have faith however that if/when we have "the talk" that she is a strong girl and we will get thru the sadness together. My biggest fear is that she will forever doubt that when a couple commits to forever that it doesn't really mean anything. My husband and I both come from "in tact" homes and that is what I always wanted for my kids.
As far as GAL, I think mentally I'm getting there but in actions I haven't been doing too much. I know I need to DO more but I just feel like I have this HUGE weight on my shoulders every waking moment. I work full time and when I'm not working I'm driving the kids back and forth to school/daycare. Truthfully, I think over the years that I put myself SO far down on the "importance" list that I lost January girl along the way.
M-44 H-44 D9 S1 M-17 T-20 Bomb-8/09 EA/PA/MLC H moved out 2/4/10
It's not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.-Roy Disney
