I hear you Mike on the court appearance. It was priceless to hear my L comment to me about how much a cold faced B my XW was when he met with her L and her privately to iron out final negotiations in a side court room.
it's sure easy enough to get a divorce...I think if that's what you're after then you should have to stand up and frinkin say it...
I don't think it should be easy and I don't think you should be able to pay a man/woman who has a lawyers degree to stand up there for you and tell a judge that you want one...I think you should have to stand up there yourself and tell the world...and that the LBS should be in the courtroom so you can see their face...
straight up and to the point in all aspects of life....
