Calling out the Piecers

[WalkingMan]

You're right...the whole OM thing does complicate things. I know that the common idea on here is that there must be a complete and total breal with the OM for the piecing process to work.

I'm in agreement with this. Does this mutual investment between the xw and om check out? I'd tell the xw that you want to see all the info on this investment. This is your business so you know what's best on how to approach the situation, but if I were you I would see if there's a way for the xw to get out of this investment. It's a reason for her to stay in contact with something that's roadblock to reconciliation. It's obvious it's bothering you.