What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[HHIF]

I've been following your thread and see allot of things that got my attention.

We have been married almost 27 years and have two kids we are not actually seperated but live like roommates in the same house.

We did share the same bed until recently when she said she wasn't sleeping well and was uncomfortable with us in the same bed.She talked about putting a bed in my office and sleeping there which I didn't want so I have been sleeping on the couch.

I am wondering if I should go back to our bed and if she doesn't like it let her go sleep somewhere else.

I am trying to be the nice guy and keep things as normal and calm as possible for kids sake.We get along great as friends and parents,no fighting and she isn't going out or running around,she just doesn't feel love for me as a husband and I know in her mind she wants to stay together until kids are gone(which at least 3 more years) and then get D and move on with her life.

I have been DBing working on GAL and do not force R talks of pursue her,she is just hard to understand.We eat meals together,we go to church together but we don't touch except every now and then when she is feeling horny she will let me know and I scratch the itch for her and then next day it's back to being friends and roommates.

I have been very patient and sometimes wonder if I should do more to force things or be more of a jerk.I am crazy about this lady and do want to save the marriage but right now we are stuck in limbo land.

I do think she has been and still is going through MLC and I still believe in my heart that she will figure it out and realize how blessed she actually is.