The bitteness point you make is a good one. Although we have reason to justify it, at the end of the day what is it going to accomplish, mom and dad hating each other? I refuse to let that happen. I am just as responsible for the M problems as the W is.
In my opinion the advantage we have is that we have assessed ourselves and the situation. Im my sitch, I am are trying to improve who I am, how I react to problems and ulitmately how I love (not taking things for granted). Will this help me down the road? I like to think it will. Conversly, our spouses are reacting to being unhappy and have only assessed that. They are not changing themselves and will likely carry past mistakes with them into the future. Just my thoughts for the day.
