Originally Posted By: SoldierDad
Not sure if it is temporary, but I feel, indifferent about it all right now.

I hope this is a good thing. Maybe, I am finally detaching? I mean, how will I KNOW I am starting to detach? I think this feeling might be part of it.


Indifference is definitely the beginning of detachment. It means that her actions aren't causing emotional responses in you as they once did.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."