The twilight zone and the OW

[kjensen]

Books that helped me:
-Five Love Languages-Gary Chapman
-Fighting For Your Marriage-Howard Markman et al(good for how to active/listen and validate..)
-Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus-John Gray
-How to Improve or Marriage without Talking about It-Patricia Love and Steven Stosny

I thought there was good stuff in these books to help me in my communication with others including my H..

Be easy on yourself if you find yourself less "detached" down the road...detachment is easy when you are angry/tired and less easy when you are lonely/hurt... For me, it seems to come and go..more consistent detachment now than early into this.