"They" say when you start feeling indifferent it means you're ready to let go.
Just circling back a bit on your thread, Cutter, since I'd never really followed it before. Your feelings back on this day jumped out at me. I agree with the above, too, but I was also told that my feelings would jump all over the place from day to day, from love, to hate, to anger, to sadness, back to love, back to sadness, etc.
I was told when I got to "Disgust," I would know I was done.
I did, and I was, and I filed. We since reconciled, and pulled back from the abyss, and today are happier than we've been in years, but that was the emotion -- "disgust" -- that I needed to hit in order to file.
