Living, Loving, & Learning one day at a time

[Treese]

Thanks VH.....I didnt' sleep.....yes it got into my head...

I just feel for my kids...they are the ones suffering in all this...I'm shocked...my D23 did go to her grandparents once and all she got was a lecture about what she should feel about her dad....so she left, disappointed, and frustrated...she did try to reach out...they just chose to create drama...

so, in all this some answers start to surface...H's mom has ALWAYS been controlling...im sure she controlled H's life while he was young...then when I married him I took care of him, did everything for him...which he probably thought I was trying to control it like his mom....I wasnt' but maybe came across as such...

MIL has made this about her and what she wants...it's not about her...or me or my kids....it's all about H...selfish and childish....a teenager with a girlfriend...

After crying all night, I woke up and sitting by my lamp was a picture that said, "I love my Grandma"..it was a picture of my D23's puppy....so cute....and I said to myself..This is why I am blessed....my children will always be close to me...and that's all I need...