Rob, you came to my thread early in my sitch and I want to thank you for your input now, thank you. If I can give you some of my own input I will say, I think you are right. Your wife seems to be working up the courage to tell you the truth. She may do it tomorrow or it may take her a week of talking every night so dont push her away now. Keep doing what you did and I think the truth will come.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
If you desperately want a title choose a less self-deprecating one like, "WAW sledgehammer"
I pissed off a couple of women on Tristan's thread several month's ago (I seriously still don't really know why, difference of opinion) to the point where they had threatened to leave the db forums because of my "attitude" LOL!
Which is funny because I was previously always known for being a "nice guy" ;-)
Darn robx- what a thread, maybe you should be = professor robx
Well you know what i think of you.
I'm definately a "need to knower".
Appreciate your help.
Thanks OB, I'm nowhere near a professor on this stuff, speak to Coach, Puppy, Steve, Gucci, Sandi and countless others on these forums that have way more experience than I do.
OB your situation was a little similar to my own, that's why I took an interest, hope everything works out for you bro!
Ya know Rob, I was reading your most recent post, and thinking wow the tables have turned...
All the begging, pleading, crying, pushing is probably not the most attractive thing for you..
Think your W needs to pickup and read DB/DR..
I feel bad for her, as a person, no one wants to see someone in that state.
But as we all know that is the consequences for decisions that we make.
Nothing to offer here about where you are going, or what decision you can make, because it seems you are in a healthy place, and will make the best decision for YOU.
From that place, any decision you make will be the right one..
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
