Sure, reassurancing your love and marital vows does not seem to have a successful response towards saving your marriage. note: neither will the flip-flopping and the mind f**ks from here on out.
It seemed to me she enjoyed the single life and when you decide to grow a pair, to paraphrase you, she fly swatted your Nuts with a sledge hammer. We will find out if she crushed them when we hear your plan. What you got planned?
My question, your wife, how would she respond if you agreed with her that divorce was the answer and the quicker the time-line the better. And you dropped all reassurances of your love and happy marriage dreams.
