Originally Posted By: are you kidding
Lost I know no one gets better until I do..kids,work,her all of us.


Yes and no.

You, your work and your children....Great! Yes become better in those areas. For the right reasons. Because you want to be a better person.

Her? You have no control over her getting better. It's all on her. She has to want it and take action.

Don't stand still.