I'm certainly not making it 'easy' for her, she has to pay me Child Support and the kids aren't real fond of spending time with her (and I'm not going out of my way to encourage them).
I guess like everyone here is saying, become a better person in the hope she notices and thinks maybe being a WAW wasn't such a good idea.
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010